Saturday, August 20, 2005
Something worth pondering abt...
After a long talk with my fren yesterday while on the way to town, I realised I've learned something new from our conversation too.
I am aware that different people have different personalities, and it's all these personalites that actually makes us love or hate our frenz or foes. There may be people whom we can't accept, whether it's their behaviour or language or just the way they look, however we can't change the fact that they are of this certain breed. It also has alot to do with who we always mix around with and the environment we are brought up in. For example, a tough person may have gone thru alot of difficulties in his life since young, and a dependant person may be one that is showered with lots of love from his family.
The fact that you can't change a person comes from the logic that whatever you try to do, the person will always have that hateful personality you tried so hard to change deep within, and if not done properly, you may lose that fren bcos he can't accept the fact that u can't accept him for who he is. Therefore, if you can't stand a certain person, just withdraw away from him and stick with your own grp of people whom you can click with. That's the best way to end things isn't it? There's no point in trying to change someone if it makes u angry/disappointed when you don't get the outcome u expect from that person after the changeover, which will then lead to more problems in future. Frenz should be one whom u can communicate with initially and not build on gradually from trying to fit them into your category of a good fren. You can't stop someone from hating you, but on the other hand, there might be other ppl who love you for who you are.
With that, I shall this piece of entry. Just a word of advice to whoever may be reading this blog: Just be yourself and you'll be a happy person. It's a torture to change yourself just to accommodate to another person.
Fingers dancing ended on 8/20/2005 02:50:00 PM
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