Saturday, August 26, 2006
Controversial issues
Well, I watched "The Devil Wears Prada" yesterday and I must say it sort of stimulated my brain cells and set me thinking. Similarly to the movie "Click", "The Devil Wears Prada" addresses issues pertaining to balancing interpersonal relationships and work commitments. Tough as it seems, sometimes it is only when we lose something or someone do we start to realise that we've missed out on alot more of other things as well, and that we're actually not as happy as we were before.
Some people spend a large part of their youth trying to earn as much $$ as possible, hoping that this will help pave the way for a better life with all the luxuries when you grow older. True, living a luxury life gives you the status and confidence you yearn for, but if doing that makes you lose your loved ones and reshapes your character to someone whom you yourself can't even recognise, what's the point? If being rich cause you to lose your friends, I would rather remain a pauper and bask in the love of my friends and family.
Money can buy ANYTHING but love. This cold hard fact can't be changed. Hence, no matter how rich you are, you wouldn't be happy without your loved ones around. Though yes, money can promise a better life and new-found friends, but can you be sure those so-called "friends" are not sticking around with you bcos of your $$? Your family will always be there for you, but only friends who stick with you thru thick and thin are true friends of yours. Shunning you at times of trouble shows you how much that friend cares.
Maybe it's time for us to slow down our footsteps and look around you. Identify who are the ones who really care for you. Ask yourself if you've been treating the person with the same amount of care and concern they've shown for you. If not, there's still time for amendments. Even if your whole life falls down on you, just remember that you still have great pals who will be there for you, and you'll feel more consoled.
Fingers dancing ended on 8/26/2006 01:34:00 PM
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Sunday, August 20, 2006
How Did I Fall In Love With You
I simply LOVE this song by BSB..Wanted to post their "live in concert" vid, but quality wise sucks..So I found this that seems quite alright..Enjoy folks!!
Lyrics:
Remember when, we never needed each other
The best of friends like
Sister and Brother
We understood, we'd never be,
Alone
Those days are gone, and I want you so much
The night is long and I need your touch
Don't know what to say
I never meant to feel this way
Don't want to be
Alone tonight
Chorus:
What can I do, to make it right
Falling so hard so fast this time
What did I say, what did you do?
How did I fall in love with you?
I hear your voice
And I start to tremble
Brings back the child that, I resemble
I cannot pretend, that we can still be friends
Don't want to be,
Alone tonight
CHORUS
Bridge:
Oh I want to say this right
And it has to be tonight
Just need you to know, oh yeah
I don't want to live this life
I don't want to say goodbye
With you I wanna spend
The rest of my life
CHORUS
What can I do, to make it right
Falling so hard so fast this time
Everything's changed, we never knew
How did I fall,in love ,with you?
Fingers dancing ended on 8/20/2006 05:13:00 PM
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Wednesday, August 09, 2006
Happy National Day!!!
Happy 41st birthday, my beloved Singapore!!!
Well yeah, it's National day, and instead of going out there to join in the fun, I'm like stuck at home mugging for my exams on Thurs and Fri..Hehe..What to do, this is life....
Anyway, for folks unaware, I also wanna announce that I'll be flying off to Taiwan on 1st sept..Hehehe..Omg, I can't stop thinking of what to buy in Taiwan, and the foods I'll get to try out..Ximen Ding and Shi Lin Market, here I come!!! Hahaha..Think I'm going crazy soon....
And also, I've sorted out my thoughts, I've told myself that I shall concentrate on my job and studies instead of thinking abt stupid and bo liao stuffs..U wait for love to arrive, you don't frantically search for it, as love comes to you when you least expect it..So, I shall patiently wait for my Prince Charming to arrive and sweep me off in his white horse, to his dream castle..Wahaha, read too much fairytales liao.....
Ok ok, I shall stop here for now..Going back to study liao..Will update soon abt the Taiwan trip again after my exams..Hehehe...
~ Hugz for all my friends!! ~
Fingers dancing ended on 8/09/2006 02:17:00 PM
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Saturday, August 05, 2006
Things will be alright
Folks, to update u guys, I'm fine, I will squirm out of this and still emerge as the same old me, dun worry....Thanks for all the care and concern I've received these past few days, I'm reali very touched that there are those who seriously care out there...
I guess it's right to say that "Friends are for life"..Even if there are ppl who dun appreciate you out there, it's ok..Learn to accept the fact that your true friends will stay with you for better or for worse, not forgetting your own family as well..Hehe...
Wish me luck in my exams!!
P.S. It's not the end of the world yet..Enjoy life to the fullest, cos you only live once!!!
Fingers dancing ended on 8/05/2006 01:02:00 PM
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Wednesday, August 02, 2006
Disgusted....
I'm feeling really disgusted with myself, for what I'm actually thinking of...I used to strongly object and condemn ppl who are two-timers and thinks that ppl who knows their gf/bf are two-timing them but still willingly stay wif them are either too despo or in need of love, or heck care, as long as there's someone that can cuddle up to....
True as it sounds, I guess it's correct to say that you won't know how it feels until you are in that situation to judge for yourself..I dunno why, despite wadever he's done, I'm still hanging on to wadever little hope that we can still be together, even if it's one where he can't promise me a commitment..Call me stupid or wadever..But now, I'll be grateful if someone can just slap the hell outta me so that I can stop dreaming, dreaming of the impossible to happen....
Or maybe I should just totally give up on guys and be a nun instead..Hahaha..Now that's lame..Alrite, think it's time for revision..I shall stop here, just felt the sudden need to release my thoughts out, whether or not there's anybody listening to me....
Fingers dancing ended on 8/02/2006 08:34:00 PM
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Tuesday, August 01, 2006
Why?
Why is it that when you are being ill-treated by someone, only then will you realise that there are other ppl out there who truly cares for you but that you have neglected them? Cos u've been brainwashed by that evil person, or cos u're too "into" the person that your thoughts are being clouded and hence can't think properly? There are lots of reasons as to why human beings act the way they do..But I've been thru this more than once, and each time I can only sit down and regret that I did not treasure the person who treats me well initially..By the time I've realised, it's already too late....
However, I'm still grateful that I have a bunch of frenz out there who are willing to lend me a listening ear whenever I have something I wanna say..For that, I am truly appreciative of their attention to me and wish to thank them for all their concerns..Folks, you know who you are...A BIG hug for all those who cares, you've been my pillar of strength for all those periods when I'm down and out, not to mention when I'm in my happier times...
Exams are just round the corner, in fact it's next week..I shall give it my best shot and then slack for abt a wk or so, and then I'll be back on track, the same old brand new me shall surface..Well, I'm changing my work shift back to normal too, the same old 5 day work wk shift, cos I'll only be taking 1 module for my next sem, and for the next 2 sems as well..Stupid sch, co-ordination sucks, which is why I can't complete my Advanced Dip in the 9 mths they promised me..Wadever..At least changing back my shift allows me to spend more, cos of the increase in wages due to the xtra hrs I'll be putting in..Haha..Shopping trips and fine dining will be more frequent, so buddies, any new places u wanna shop or dine, dun forget me, cos I'll be willing to try it out wif you!! Hehehe...
That's all for now..Any new updates, I shall inform you guys..Anyway..I miss Zouk, maybe we shld go again soon!! Hehe..Be sure to be early though, wed nite's Q is super duper fucking long!! My legs grew numb from Q-ing too long that day haha, though it was well worth the effort..Zouk - the ultimate stress relief club..Haha...
Fingers dancing ended on 8/01/2006 03:19:00 PM
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